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Note to Self- Recap of 2022 and learnings

 

Dear 2022,

You have been a roller coaster ride.
 
Some memories to cherish, some learnings to carry on as I will be entering another exciting year which means new opportunity every single day of the year. Some tangy experiences leaving pungent impact that I may want to erase from my life.

This is the season of celebrations, of baking, exchanging gifts, relishing cup cakes and taste mouth savoring desserts, travelling, house parties, of bonfire, making customary resolutions😃 , taking forward some learnings from 2022 and beyond. 

On the last day of 2022, I bid adieu to my older version. For what happened in 2022 , was destined and happened for a season. That taught me what is meant to go and what is meant to stay with me.. the path to commit to.. Tomorrow will not be the same as today. Every second, every minute and hour will remind me of a new beginnings. A plethora of prospects, of hope and love.


As I recollect some moments of 2022, I want to say good bye to few things and keep some with me for the rest of life and grow further.


1. Getting rid of toxicity- That's true!!! I have had some folks around who never missed opportunity to belittle me in front of others. They were energy drainers, kept whining. Would always find a reason or the other to find fault in others, critical of others , pessimistic and would always focus on negative aspect rather than counting their blessings. While coming more in contact with them, I noticed that my energy started depleting. During the last few months, I have turned cautious and have set boundaries for myself. How I speak to myself, how do I manage failures and use them as learnings for the next endeavour . Here's hoping that I diligently follow the same in the new year.

2. Simplistic lifestyle - I have always been fan of simplicity, kindness and empathy. Appreciating and finding happiness in the smallest things and keeping my schedule simple still excites me. Sipping a cup of tea with mother, watching Tom & Jerry on weekends , and having conversations with house keeper to know about her well-being and family and watching her smile are the true treasures of life. Less clutter, slow living, embracing spirituality , practice gratitude are some of the qualities that I want to take forward with me in 2023.

3. Be more inclusive - Be more accepting of people hailing from different backgrounds and cultures, appreciate the differences that they bring along have made me more tolerant in life. I look forward to make new alliances in 2023. 

4. Focus on mental well-being and health - Taking care of physical health will continue to be the top priority for me. We get so engrossed in our lives that we often compromise our mental health for the sake of achieving progress in life. There were moments when I felt low and trapped. Deep breathing helped in reducing my stress levels. Over last few months, I make it a point to stay connected with friends and cousins and check if they are doing fine

Here's looking forward to another rocking year and embrace with open arms what life has to offer !!!






 

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